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The Blame Game: How Personal Responsibilities And Consequences Are Easily Shirked Nowadays

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7 months ago

December 6, 2024

Miguel

The Blame Game: How Personal Responsibilities And Consequences Are Easily Shirked Nowadays 5

A man can fail many times, but he isn’t a failure until he begins to blame somebody else. –John Burroughs

There is going to be a little ranting and raving going on here. I’ve had a question which has continued to baffle and perplex my apparently simple mind to the point that I’m finished trying to answer it. It’s one of those questions where you can’ figure it out, so you stop thinking about it all together in hopes that it will eventually come to you. But my question has not been answered, either by accident or with deep intent purpose in mind. That question being: At what point in American history did our Society lose the belief behind personal responsibility and dealing with the consequences for one’s own actions?

It would just seem that throughout history, people of every race and creed were of a different cut and grade than they are nowadays. John Brown the abolitionist, who was hung for stealing weapons and setting slaves free said, “I would rather die on the scaffold for God’s eternal truth than in any other way.” Socrates willingly quaffed his own poison as was the norm of the time after being found guilty for corrupting the youth and impiety. Essentially a philosopher being killed for philosophizing on subject’s people didn’t care for. Joan of Arc, a young 19-year old girl trying to free her French Brethren from the heal of English Rule, was found guilty by the English for insubordination and heterodoxy and burned at the stake for heresy. She believed god directly spoke to her, and as such, knew she was going to be burned at the stake. An odd premonition, just one of many she actually had.

At any rate, these people and countless others throughout history have come to some conclusion, and whether right or wrong, good or bad, held true to their convictions till the bitter end. Now of course the same could be said of tyrannical dictators and other evils, but sadly, they don’t even play the blame game.

Sadly, it seems many of us have grown into the privileged and bratty type, where the only game worth playing is the blame game. How often do we see this? Where someone completes an act, than because the consequences are too stiff and stark to face, they quickly shift blame elsewhere. The biggest problem is that the incidents are not isolated, but resonate throughout our entire social system. Let’s give a few examples as to what we’re speaking of here and how cowardly and criminal all of these actions are.

CEO’s of top Companies being fired and given the most ridiculous severance packages

This is only a problem for large publicly traded companies, but a serious problem nonetheless. How many stories have we all heard of a CEO doing a completely terrible job of managing, costing the company countless millions, using company funds for personal expenses, and the list goes on and on. Only in the end to be rewarded for their indolence and stupidity with grandiose severance packages. Now when a company is owned by a collection of people, those people have to elect others to speak on their behalf, which is generally what makes up a board of directors. Then these board members hire the best and brightest to run and manage a company. Problem is, many of the same people sit on many of the same boards for many of the same companies.

You can easily see why this would be a somewhat conflicting issue. Meanwhile, the actual owners of the companies, the stock holders, are just assuming that their business is being run in a smart and ethical manner. But what is ethical about someone failing at their job, and then being compensated for being fired? Those multi-million dollar severance packages should in the least go back into the company to try and make op for the error of hiring the dunce to begin with.

Government bailouts for too-big-to-fail banks and businesses

No business under a free market system is ever, or will ever, be too-big-to-fail. Where ever there is a demand that can be met, there will be people to supply it so long as it’s possible to supply. With that said, what business is too big to fail? Any answer would work. What business that is considered too big to fail could go under and not have hundreds of people waiting on the sideline for their chance to enter the market? Beyond the idea that any business is too big to fail, what business does the government have in entering the private market and helping companies in trouble? Also not to mention how the funds provided to these companies were often times misused, unneeded, and at no point should be a concern of a government.

Why would we support something that is failing, rather than try and support something that has yet to have a chance to get started. Free enterprise is the mainstay of this country, and there is nothing free about it when the government steps in and supports a certain section. It is absolutely revolting to think we rewarded bankers for not doing their job correctly, that the American people were on the hook for the gambles made and lost, and the government oddly supports monopolies of the type so much that they would even admit… they are too big to fail. It’s a frightening idea for a democracy with a free market system.

James Holmes, The Batman Movie Shooter

If you have not been following up on the story of mass murderer James Holmes from Colorado, all you really need to know is he’s pleading insanity. Crazy right? A man who devised an extremely well thought out plan on how to harm as many people as possible is claiming hes insane, and should not pay with his life for the crimes he committed. Even if he was insane, and was sane enough for just a moment to say he was outside of his mind when he did what he did, how could you live knowing the monster that dwells deep inside you? I myself would beg to be put down if I truly thought I was insane enough to unknowingly do what was done. But what he did was planned and methodical, which should show anyone he was at least sane enough to make a plan. But yet, now that he has to face the consequences of what he did, he’s turned from a stone cold killer into a victim…. The victim of his own mind. It’s awful, despicable, detestful, and there is no shortage of words to describe how terrible he is.

Let’s compare him to old Carl Panzram, a man who fully took responsibility for what he did. Before being put to death, he was quoted as saying the following, “In my lifetime I have murdered 21 human beings, I have committed thousands of burglaries, robberies, larcenies, arsons and last but not least I have committed sodomy on more than 1,000 male human beings. For all these things, I am not in the least bit sorry.” Then he went on to tell the executioner, “Hurry it up you Hoosier bastard! I could hang a dozen men while you’re screwing around.” Now this is certainly not intended to praise him for his actions, or being proud of what he had done. Merely to show that the man did what he did, and as terrible as it was, was fully willing to admit to his wrong doings and bear the burden of the consequences.

In The End

In the end, I’m willing to argue that people are just becoming weaker in their characteristics. Whether you want to call them cowards, yellow bellied, overly sensitive, or whatever. The point is, people make excuses and play the blame game like it’s their job far too frequently nowadays. Form politics to law, sports and school, and pretty much every aspect of our social environment, nearly no one can take responsibility for their actions. And for the life of me… I can’t understand why.

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The author of this article is Damien S. Wilhelmi. If you enjoyed this piece you can follow me on Twitter @JakabokBotch. The law can be a tricky course to navigate, and if you don’t care to shirk responsibility for your actions and need to hire a proper Boulder DUI Attorney, do the right thing and find one.

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5 Reasons You Should Never Give Up When Trying To Make Money From A Blog

Published

6 hours ago

July 18, 2025

Miguel

Did you know that it’s easier to increase your earnings each month from 2K to 10K than it is to go from 0 to 2K? This is because when you reach the 2K per month point you already have a well-oiled machine. Starting from scratch is really hard and it can almost take forever to earn a decent wage from your blog. If people know how long it took before they would be earning enough money to quit their job they might never start blogging. Those are the people who quit before they see any results.

If you want to be one of the people with a well-oiled machine you have got to put the work in now. The last thing you want to do is quit because you might have only been a few months away from hitting the jackpot and you would have never known. You will be making enough money to quit your job one day, even if it takes you 3 years to do it. That is a long time for anyone, so I want to look at some important things that can give you encouragement and will hopefully stop you from giving up.

Little wins when you least expect it

You could be doing your thing and nothing is going right for you. It’s not for your lack of trying because you are putting in a lot of effort, but for some reason, it almost feels like you are going backward. Then one day you get an email asking if you would like to be featured on a big blog. Or you might receive thousands of visitors because the right person has linked to an article you wrote. Those kinds of things can’t be planned for and they just happen somewhere along the way, usually in your second or third year.

You become well known

When you are trying to network with people it is draining. You try your best to be nice to them and it’s not working. They might respond to a tweet or a blog comment, but it’s obvious they never gave it much thought and they were just trying to be nice. They still don’t know who you are. When you stick at it and have been constantly on someone’s radar for a few years they will definitely know who you are unless they are senile. You just have to stick around and wait for the magic to happen.

Sometimes turning up is enough

People get far too stressed out about how much effort is required. I think there are a few people who don’t even get any sleep because they try too hard. Sometimes all you need to do is turn up. I know that might sound strange, but you don’t need to start doing everything possible to succeed. You just need to follow a straight path and keep publishing posts for your readers. Then when you see an opportunity you should snap it up. Sometimes smart thinking beats going crazy.

The snowball effect

Have you ever made a giant snowball? When the snowball is small and it starts to roll it picks up some snow and it gets a little bigger. When it’s huge it will pick up much more snow and it will get bigger a lot quicker. This is what happens with a blog and in the beginning, you are the small snowball. No matter what you do there is only a certain amount of snow you can pick up. When you have been around for years your snowball will pick up much more snow with everything you do.

Becoming better at everything

Everyone who starts out writing doesn’t have their voice, but they find it after a year. They start out doing rubbish videos, but soon the quality will rival anything you see online. Throw in podcasting, marketing, networking, and millions of other things that make people successful. Even though it might seem hard to believe, you get better at things the more you do them, so sticking in for years will mean you turn into a great blogger who can’t fail.

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Blogging is an art in itself and many people startup with much fervor and then give up citing difficulties. The author in today’s guest post advises us why not to do such a thing. Along with his daily work, Kish Winner Exposes the property to get rich scam seminars to alert people about the dangers online.

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Increase Your Chances Of Success By Using A Virtual Office.

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6 hours ago

July 18, 2025

Miguel

The poor economic climate here in the UK has left many small businesses struggling to survive. Many have had to put plans of growth on hold as they simply cannot secure the finance they need from the banks. If you are looking to expand your business in the near future and increase its chances of success, why not consider utilising the services of a virtual office? In this article we will explain how virtual offices can benefit small businesses and help them to achieve their goals successfully.

Benefit #1: Prestigious business address

The quality of your business address goes a long way when it comes to creating the right impression on your customers. If you use a virtual office in a big city like London, you will immediately become associated with the other successful businesses that reside there. A prestigious business address (courtesy of your virtual office) can help you to build up you customers’ trust in your company and widen your customer base nationally or even internationally. Creating the impression of success is the first step to take and will help you to compete with some of the larger players in the industry you are part of.

Benefit #2: Improved customer service

Today companies simply cannot operate without providing their clients with a good customer service. The better your customer service is, the happier your customers will be. This will make them more likely to recommend you to their peers, helping you to gain more clients and increase your profits. Using a virtual receptionist can help you to improve your customer service, which will in turn increase your chances of success.

Virtual receptionists have the skills, knowledge and expertise to be able to offer your customers the best service possible. Whether you lack customer service skills yourself or simply do not have the time to handle your customers’ calls, a virtual receptionist is the perfect solution. Whilst answering your customers’ calls in a friendly and professional manner, many virtual receptionists also offer extended hours of service. This means that your customers can contact your business at a time that is most convenient to them. Increasing your business contact hours is a great way of pleasing customers, which of course has an impact on the overall success of your business. A good reputation goes along way after all!

Benefit #3: Increased focus on important business tasks

When handling all aspects of their business themselves, many business owners end up having to turn down work and let down clients because they have to work non-profitable tasks into their busy schedules. By working with a virtual office you can outsource some of your non-profitable tasks to a virtual assistant. This will lighten your work load enabling you to spend more time on doing the things you do best, such as securing new clients, growing your business and guiding it into the realms of success.

Working with a virtual office will help you build up a great reputation for your business

Conclusion

Building up a positive reputation for your business is the key to success. This is something that is easily achievable with the help of a virtual office. Not only will you be able to secure a prestigious business address for your company which will create a great first impression on potential customers, but you will also benefit from the expertise of virtual assistants in terms of customer service. The more effort you put into creating a good impression on customers, the more likely they will be to recommend your business and use your services again and again. The more people that know about your business, the more potential there is to secure new clients, which will in time lead to higher profits and overall success.

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Written by Nathan Griffiths who recommends trying out Manchester Virtual Office

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Why And How SEO Services Are Extremely Beneficial.

Published

18 hours ago

July 17, 2025

Miguel

When it comes to SEO services, there are a number of benefits that you’ll find as a business owner. Using SEO services can help make your business become a little more professional and can take your business to new heights in your online marketing efforts, as well as your rankings in search engines.

Some of the many services that you can take advantage of include copywriting, website redesigning, customer service, link building, social media, and many other internet marketing tactics.

These solutions can help in a systematic manner and this can give your business the advantage it needs. These services are provided by a number of companies that offer a wide array of experience in different elements of SEO.

With this experience and working with an SEO company, anything you pay for is going to help your business gain an online presence and can help gain a better reputation.

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Beat Your Competition

One of the biggest aspects of using these SEO services is that they are going to give you an advantage that not many other sites currently have. There are a number of websites that have different services working for them but some are not as professional as using SEO services.

Using SEO services enables you to get the advantages that you can’t get by doing things on your own. They offer extensive experience and skills that are needed to turn your website and products into lucrative income.

Time Is Money

Some SEO services give you the guarantee of seeing results in as little as a few days while others may need a little bit more time to deliver high quality results. Some may even say to give them a few months and if that is the case, consider asking what their plans are to help you out.

Hiring an SEO service is going to help cut back on the amount of work you have to do for your business especially if you don’t have the necessary experience or skills to get the work done. This is going to allow you to focus on other aspects of your business. An SEO company can take care of implementing strategies to help make your business stronger.

Price versus Quality

These days, it’s become easier for companies to find SEO services that they can afford. This is because there are so many available that the demand is decreasing so they are offering lower rates. Before you hire an SEO service company, call a few different companies and compare what each one has to offer.

Robert is a web security consultant. He focuses on advising his clients on the best vps hosting services for their business. When not assisting clients, he is either at museums, parks, or reading to expand his knowledge.